- People flock to a cheerful personality. No one (other than your close friends and some family) really cares about your problems and gripes. You will get further in life with a positive, cheerful attitude.
- In real life, there is no rewind button. Mistakes happen. People disappoint. No one is perfect. All you can do is learn from these mistakes, make the best of it, and move on.
- Forgive. "The difference between holding onto a hurt or releasing it with forgiveness is like the difference between laying your head down at night on a pillow filled with thorns or a pillow filled with rose petals." The only person a grudge hurts is you.
- Have fun. Life is stressful enough. Have as much fun as possible--as often as possible.
- Learn people's names. Learn how to spell their names. People want to feel valued. Value those around you. Everyone can bring something to the table. Start learning their value by learning their names.
- Get excited! About something. About ANYTHING!!! Always have something to look forward to.
- Love your family. It doesn't have to be blood family. Whoever you consider "family," love them. Value them. Know that no matter what, they love you and value you. No matter if you fight, argue, whatever...love them and know they love you.
- It's true...the older you get, the faster time flies! Try to appreciate every moment you have. Even the "boring" ones.
- Everything happens for a reason. Many people don't believe that. And maybe someday, something will happen to change my mind. But when I look back, I truly believe everything happened for a reason. Everything that happened in the past made us who we are today. This doesn't mean that everything is good, but it does mean that I can look back on my life and appreciate the choices, options, and roads I've traveled.
- No matter what happens today, tomorrow always happens. Mom always says that things look better after a good night's sleep. It's true. No matter how bad you think things are, tomorrow is a new day!
That was fun! Do you have lessons that you have learned that you want to share????